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According to a recent Pew Research Center poll, about one-third of young adults (defined here as ages 18-34) are still living with their parents at home. However, this is not likely to last forever; and upon the children's departure, their parents reach a turning point, too. Some opt to stay in their longtime homes, others look to upsize to accommodate visiting adult children and grandchildren, and still others are opting to downsize. This article explores the advantages of downsizing as an empty nester and what to look for if you're an empty nester hoping to downsize and purchase a New York City apartment.

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1748 Dean Street
1748 Dean Street Crown Heights
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241 East 76th Street Lenox Hill
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136 East 76th Street Park/Fifth Ave. to 79th St.
Spruce Ridge House, 245 East 25th Street
Spruce Ridge House, 245 East 25th Street Gramercy Park
60 Gramercy Park North
60 Gramercy Park North Gramercy Park

Advantages to downsizing as an empty nester

There are many advantages to downsizing as an empty nester, but the number one reason is its potential to simplify home maintenance. From ongoing repairs to cleaning, more square footage means dedicating more time and energy to your home. Additionally, if you're making the move from a single-family house to an apartment, the superintendent and other staff are responsible for snow removal, maintaining the boiler and HVAC, and other building maintenance chores. Finally, a strategic move might also help you drastically reduce your monthly overhead.

For example, if you're downsizing from a three-bedroom to a one-bedroom coop or condo in New York City, your monthly fees will likely decrease if you move to a comparable building. If you still have one, your mortgage payments will also likely decrease, or the move may enable you to finally eliminate the need for financing. If you’re moving from a home you own outright in the suburbs to a coop or condo in New York City, however, even if you can buy in a cash-only deal, your coop fees or combined condo fees and taxes may be considerably higher than your current monthly overhead. However, if this is the case, the advantages of downsizing to a coop or condo in New York City could still be well worth it, especially if your new property is in a full-service, amenity-rich building.

Considerations when buying as an empty nester

If you’ve spent the past three or four decades living in a home in the suburbs or a smaller city or town, it is important to understand that New York City’s housing market is home to many different types of properties. While there are single-family, duplex, and multiplex properties available, most of the city’s housing stock is coops and condos. Buying coops and condos is similar, though there are some notable financial advantages to buying a coop (e.g., they tend to be priced lower and will enable you to avoid certain taxes).

Whether you’re purchasing a coop or condo, property prices will be determined by three key factors: the prestige of the building, location, and access to building amenities (e.g., a gym, workspace, or rooftop garden) and services (e.g., 24-hour doormen). With so many choices to consider, this raises an obvious question: What is the best type of property to buy, and where are the best neighborhoods to look if you’re an empty nester? While only you can determine which property or neighborhood is best, as an empty nester, a few considerations are likely to be particularly important.
Location: If you plan on ditching your car, a location close to public transportation will be important. For this reason, it may be wisest to focus on neighborhoods south of 125th Street in Manhattan. For example, the Upper East Side offers easy access to the 4/5/6 and Q trains and also happens to be home to one of the oldest populations in New York City (though it is also a popular neighborhood for families with young children).

Elevator building or walk-up: Even if you’re extremely spry, there is no shame in wanting to live in an elevator building. Many people in their 20s and 30s and nearly anyone with small children also prefer elevator buildings over walk-ups. If you purchase in an elevator building, you’ll also be more likely to be able to age in place, which is something many New Yorkers are able to do, even those who find themselves living alone.
Services: If you have never lived in a full-service building (i.e., a building with 24-hour door staff, a live-in superintendent, and porters), the advantages might not be immediately obvious, but in New York City, full-service buildings are highly sought for a good reason. If you have a country home or frequently travel, owning in a full-service building can offer additional peace of mind (e.g., if you’re gone for an extended period, you can even arrange for your superintendent or a porter to check on your apartment from time to time, though if you do, be sure to tip generously).

In addition, it is important to note that doormen not only collect packages and ensure that only authorized people are permitted to enter your building but also perform a host of other duties. For example, since doormen know who is in the building at any time, they are often the first people to recognize the need for a wellness check, which can be especially reassuring for empty nesters who live alone.
Connaught Tower, 300 East 54th Street, #11H (Sothebys International Realty)
Amenities: In New York City, amenities can range from luxury gyms with pools, squash courts, and steam rooms to rooftop gardens to co-working spaces. Like a hotel or resort, you get what you pay for, but if you're looking for a residence that feels like living in a hotel (or is a hotel), the option exists.

Space: Whether you’re working from home or want to ensure you have plenty of space for visiting relatives, in a city where every square foot counts, you'll need to have a clear sense of your room needs before going on the market.

Monthly fees: Even if you’re still working, chances are you’ll eventually want to retire or at least scale down your hours. For this reason, it is also important to consider a building's current fees, history of fee hikes, and likelihood of drastic fee spikes in the future. As such, if you're concerned about future fee hikes, you'll likely want to avoid buying in a land-lease building, at least if the lease is due to come up for renewal in the near future - Crain's New York Business recently ran a profile of residents of a land-lease building who are at risk of losing their homes.

Lifestyle: Above all else, you'll want to consider your lifestyle. If you enjoy walking everywhere, consider what the local neighborhood has to offer. Is there a grocery store, pharmacy, and dry cleaners nearby? If you have a pet, is the building universally pet-friendly, or are there size or breed restrictions on dogs? If you have grandchildren who are likely to visit often and even stay overnight, is the building child-friendly? While it can be difficult to assess the culture of a building and the surrounding neighborhood from a listing alone, don't worry — that is precisely the type of information your real estate agent will be able to answer.

New Manhattan listings with open houses


Uptown

360 Cabrini Boulevard, #8D (Brown Harris Stevens Residential Sales LLC)



Upper East Side

152 East 83rd Street, #5C (Corcoran Group)

241 East 76th Street, #4F (Next Stop NY)

111 East 75th Street, #3C (Coldwell Banker Warburg)

The Fontaine, #28D (Corcoran Group)
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136 East 76th Street, #14C (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

1025 Fifth Avenue, #8AS (Brown Harris Stevens Residential Sales LLC)

The Treadwell, #3A (Brown Harris Stevens Development Marketing LLC)

126 East 86th Street, #7A (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

The 74, #10B (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)



Upper West Side

The Parkway, #6E (Sothebys International Realty)

Old Ridge, #3 (Compass)

The Dorset, #9CD (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

222 Riverside Drive, #3A (Leven Real Estate)

Mayfair Towers, #34G (Compass)


Midtown

Connaught Tower, #15C (Corcoran Group)

The Coronet, #6G (Serhant LLC)

Sutton Tower, #27C (Corcoran Sunshine Marketing Group)



Downtown

60 Gramercy Park North, #LOFT1 (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

Spruce Ridge House, #4K (Brown Harris Stevens Residential Sales LLC)

The Halloran, #6J (Compass)

344 West 12th Street, #6C (Brown Harris Stevens Residential Sales LLC)

21 West 9th Street, #1FR (Compass)

High Line 519, #GARDEN (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

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Contributing Writer Cait Etherington Cait Etherington has over twenty years of experience working as a journalist and communications consultant. Her articles and reviews have been published in newspapers and magazines across the United States and internationally. An experienced financial writer, Cait is committed to exposing the human side of stories about contemporary business, banking and workplace relations. She also enjoys writing about trends, lifestyles and real estate in New York City where she lives with her family in a cozy apartment on the twentieth floor of a Manhattan high rise.