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New York is notoriously expensive, and new figures have emerged to show its impact: A recent analysis of census data found that middle-income earners are leaving New York at one of the highest rates in the nation. One of the main reasons people gave for their departure was a search for new or better housing; another was to establish a household (i.e., start having children).

However, that is not to say that it is impossible or inadvisable to raise children in New York. Between the parks, museums, and schools, the city offers incredible advantages. And while New Yorkers live in smaller homes than most other Americans, these homes can still be child-friendly. This article examines considerations all new and expectant parents should take before buying or renting in New York City.

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Seward Park (1-2), 417 Grand Street
Seward Park (1-2), 417 Grand Street Lower East Side
547 West 47th Street
547 West 47th Street Midtown West
East River Coop, 575 Grand Street
East River Coop, 575 Grand Street Lower East Side
172 West 82nd Street
172 West 82nd Street Broadway Corridor
The Charleston, 225 East 34th Street
The Charleston, 225 East 34th Street Murray Hill

Access to an elevator

Even if you're young, fit, and determined to carry your child until they start walking on their own, you'll likely want to live in an elevator building. Carrying a child, stroller, diaper bag, and groceries up five flights of stairs in a walk-up only seems viable to most New Yorkers until they have done it.

Full service

Children love doormen, and why wouldn't they? Who doesn't want to get high-fived on the way home from school or soccer practice? But that's not why expecting parents should consider renting or buying in a doorman building. Having children means you'll be coming and going from your building many times a day, often with a lot of gear and packages. An attended lobby with another set of eyes minding all your packages and family members can make life much easier.

Amenities

If you don't have children, you may have little need for a community room. If you have a preschooler and are preparing to host ten other preschoolers and their parents in your living room, even the dingiest community room may suddenly take on the aura of a luxury amenity. If you have children, there are going to be playdates, birthday parties, and other special events that require you to open up private space on a fairly regular basis. If you're living in a small New York City apartment, the ability to host guests without cramming everyone into your actual apartment is a huge bonus.
Music room at 11 Hoyt
Playroom at Tribeca Green

Noise policies

Different buildings are more family-friendly than others. If you're thinking about having a child or already having one on the way, ensure you move into a building with a relaxed attitude about noise. After all, you don’t want to end up living above a curmudgeon who can't handle the pitter-patter of little footsteps or occasional cry.

Room to grow

While an infant might fit nicely into a bassinet in the corner of your bedroom, and a toddler or young child may be happy to live in a dining nook flexed into a second bedroom, that's not a permanent solution: Children will need more space and privacy as they grow up. If you're already expecting or planning to have or adopt one more children in the near future, leave room to grow, even if it's simply buying a larger flat that can be creatively and legally flexed down the line.

Safety

Thankfully, most New York City neighborhoods are relatively safe, but once you have children, your sense of what "safe" means may shift. Likewise, once you have children, everything from fire escapes to loose electrical sockets will become a hazard. Take time to carefully assess your neighborhood, building, and unit with an eye to living there with someone too young to know what is and is not a hazard.

Parks

Until children reach middle school, trips to the playground tend to be a daily ritual. As a result, access to a safe local park is essential. If you don't already have children, get to know the neighborhood and ask about park access. It may not be on your radar yet, but it will be soon.
Morningside Gardens playground Not a scene from a public park, but the lush grounds of Lincoln Towers on the Upper West Side (Douglas Elliman)

Schools

New York City public elementary school placements are nearly always based on your school zone, which is determined by your home address. Middle schools and even high school placements also are generally based on your school district. If you are opting for the public system and care about the reputation and quality of your child's school, it is important to consider the quality of local schools before renting or buying. In fact, even if you don't have a child yet but plan to have one soon, especially if you're buying, you'll want to consider whether the local schools meet your expectations.

Neighborhood services and walk score

From social events to after-school activities to medical appointments, it is easy for parents of young children to spend several hours a day bringing their children to birthday parties, sports practices, music and art lessons, and doctor and dentist appointments. Living in a service-rich neighborhood where nearly everything is within walking distance can have a huge impact on one's time and one's sanity.

Storage

Babies and toddlers may be tiny, but this doesn't mean they don't take up a lot of space. From the "gear" (strollers, car seats, scooters, tricycles, and the list goes on and on) to all those little outfits, shoes, and toys they seem to be constantly needing, wanting, and outgrowing, small people tend to have a large footprint on one’s living space.

If you're a minimalist at heart and don't want to adopt the aesthetic of a daycare, you'll want to live in an apartment with generous closet space or a building with private storage. Below, we look at two-bedrooms and larger with enough storage space to accommodate growing families.


Two-beds and larger with storage included

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Park Ten, #21G (PocketBroker Inc)

NX, #4B (Nest Seekers LLC)

142 East 71st Street, #9A (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

547 West 47th Street, #321 (Corcoran Sunshine Marketing Group)

LUNA, #101 (THE DEVELOPMENT MARKETING TEAM)

Park Slope Court, #1C (Compass)

The Charleston, #4I (Compass)

Parc North, #6B (Real New York)

27 Dodworth Street, #PHF (Compass)

Two-beds with walk-in closets and low maintenance

210 West 19th Street, #1G (Compass)

The Olmsted, #15P (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

259 Elizabeth Street, #1B (Serhant LLC)

LightSquare, #304 (Corcoran Group)

87 Barrow Street, #2N (Compass)

340 East 80th Street, #9E (Serhant LLC)

Seward Park (1-2), #D207 (PRESTIGE PROPERTIES INTERNATIONAL)

172 West 82nd Street, #2A (Compass)

East River Coop, #D1706 (Sothebys International Realty)

The Rockfall, #3C (Elegran LLC)

Victoria House, #8K (Douglas Elliman Real Estate)

The Parkside, #1D (Corcoran Group)
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